At some point in the caregiving journey, many families face the decision of facility placement. This decision is often precipitated by a crisis or a change in health and becomes necessary either because the care recipient is no longer able to safely remain at home or family members can no longer provide the level or type of care required. There comes a time when a move to a care facility may be the best way to provide care and relieve the overwhelming demands on the family.

It is natural for family members to feel guilt, grief or anxiety when faced with this decision, and opinions from all parties concerned may be varied. The transition can bring with it new challenges and stress for everyone involved. When this time comes, it is important to acknowledge the reality of the current situation, rather than holding on to the past. It is not a failure on your part as a family that you are no longer able to provide the required level of care. As the care recipient’s health declines, care can become overwhelming -especially for one person. In addition, the equipment needed to provide the necessary care may only be available in a facility.

Caregiving does not end when your family member moves into residential care. You may have more free time and not be solely responsibility for their personal care, but you will still provide emotional support, make legal and financial decisions, visit and participate in care decisions. However, you will now have the opportunity to regain your previous relationship, that is, as a spouse, son or daughter, with your family member because you will not have to focus all your time and energy on caregiver duties.

If you’re thinking about residential care for your loved one, plan and do your research. Knowing your options and the steps in the process can help lessen the stress of the transition. Contact the Home and Community Care department of your local health authority. An assessment by a case manager must be completed to access care facilities subsidized by the health authorities. There are also private care facilities where the resident pays the cost. Check the Senior Living Magazine Housing Guide for information on both these options.

Next month: Respite options for when the caregiver wants to travel

FEBRUARY 2012 SENIOR LIVING MAGAZINE VANCOUVER ISLAND
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